我想做人做事，有时还是抱着做到"适可而止"的心态比较好吧，即处在"中立"的位置, 不多不少刚刚好! 不是吗? 就看看这两个简单的对比吧:
1. 自卑〉自信〉自大 - 不够自信叫自卑，过度自信叫自大!
2. 消极〉积极〉冲动 - 不够积极叫消极，过度积极叫冲动!
问题是我们很多时候都无法100%的控制住任何事物，往往只不过是一念之差，就会带来不同的结果。
我就认识这两种人，可是我 个人认为自大比自卑更可怕!
因为自大的人通常都是有着目中无人、自以为是和唯我独尊的态度的，所以要与自大的人沟通，有一定的难度；就算说了教了，他也未必会听会领情。而自卑的人， 我想只要不断的给于鼓励，并处旁协助，要他站起来时有望的。 无论是自大还是自卑的人，能不能学好学乖都得看各人的心态、思想与造化吧!
这 一章也让我想起了一个猜字谜语: "自大一点"。 答案是"臭"......所以自大的人名声一定很臭吧! 还有一点我是能够肯定的，我一定不"臭"，因为我的位置较偏向于自卑嘛 （好笑吧！） 人本来就要不断学习，有所启发，有所行动吧!
唉! 做人难啊! 你不也这样认为吗? 做多了本分，人家说你假会；做得刚刚好，人家说你计较；做少过应有，人家说你偷懒!
The truth of Life
When I was a little boy, I did not understand why the resting birds on the roof would fly away when I approached them. Not that I wanted to spring them away. But they just flew away and left me behind.
Time passed. When I was bigger but young, I did not want to explain to myself why I was such a failure in swimming. Consequently, I knew that the when i swam, all will again, dump me behind.
Now, I am no longer a little boy. Biggerer Biggerer. I started to realize that a thing happens for a reason. I could always learn to explain every occurrence. The birds were scared. My swim skills were sucked. Blah blah blah… Just any sucky explanation will do a consolation.
However, I was stupid and never being self-protective. Sadly, I was left behind by the birds and disappointed by the people. The truth only can share between me and me and me. I learned to "activate" my security code for my truth as disappointments and sadness will approach me very soon if i loosen them out.
When you open up for others, make sure they are appreciate enough, or else, prepare your heart being damage (without their notice). It just matter of facts. Perhaps, I should have acted like birds. By nature, being cautious about any risk of getting hurt.
Cheers.
This is....Show off time
Okay, done with all my bloody multimedia tools assignments.
I'm taking advantage of this week to make a little announcement, it's not really showing off, it's more of a sharing of a secret (up 'till now) project that I have been working on, and am really excited about!
I'm not good in photoshop and illustrator anyway; they are like ruining my life as an uncle. Why i need to lean that stupid 'updated, young, and current' technologies huh???
And if u ask me to draw....oh no~ 就不会画呀，就国中毕业就没画了~i was like so helpless that time, i mafan Jason for few thousand times and kacau my secondary mates Iverson just to have some samples, paiseh nia.....im really tak ada hal tak naik bukit....lol
These are the final outcome i have.....Go take a look, have a read, leave me a comment and tell me what you think! I am totally open to any feedback, praises, pijak, whatever!
I'm taking advantage of this week to make a little announcement, it's not really showing off, it's more of a sharing of a secret (up 'till now) project that I have been working on, and am really excited about!
I'm not good in photoshop and illustrator anyway; they are like ruining my life as an uncle. Why i need to lean that stupid 'updated, young, and current' technologies huh???
And if u ask me to draw....oh no~ 就不会画呀，就国中毕业就没画了~i was like so helpless that time, i mafan Jason for few thousand times and kacau my secondary mates Iverson just to have some samples, paiseh nia.....im really tak ada hal tak naik bukit....lol
These are the final outcome i have.....Go take a look, have a read, leave me a comment and tell me what you think! I am totally open to any feedback, praises, pijak, whatever!
Assignment one: Abstract
i name it as "alone" but it well known as "batik" --'
2nd Assignment: Postcard Design
obviously is sunset view, nevertheless, people are more focus on the fish~
3rd Assignment: Superimpose (its like before and after lar)
It's my Britney Bitch~
Last but not least: Movie Poster
Paladin will be in theater next summer...lol
2nd Assignment: Postcard Design
obviously is sunset view, nevertheless, people are more focus on the fish~3rd Assignment: Superimpose (its like before and after lar)
It's my Britney Bitch~Last but not least: Movie Poster
Paladin will be in theater next summer...lolokay, done....thats all i have...if you guys wan to see more, can refer to my blog friend's link, choose Sohai Peter or Bumi to have more reference....
Cheers....
Cheers....
I got that Boom Boom
Are you tired by your works/ assignments?
Are you irritated by your own life?
OR
Are you thinking of a "full-sleeping plan" package?
COME ON! GET A LIFE!!
However, is non of my business anyway! I probably think that things will be more positive when you think that everything is positive and possible! Not say that i'm a positivism (erm..sound like involve some theories), but its good to think positively~(Im not purposely point on u, peter)
This semester really "take my life"! i have 5 subjects but it like more worst than last semester which had 6 subjects + Ms S.! This time, we have lousy lecturers, again, but all of us like already used to it! Sure lar, we are like kena training last semester edi mar~
This time kena be very FUN! I will act like advertiser to promote Pizza Hut and Gintell lar, Multimedia class like im a design student in The One Academy, act like donkey to stare at those comm theories lar, and last but not least, a Nielson's staff to do research on my yucky report! Sound interesting huh? U should take PR and try!
“我们PR真的包山包海” (鸡蛋糕,2009)
means
"Our PR really cover mountain cover sea" (Chicken cake, 2009)
What a marvelous phrase in describing our course! Nonetheless, life pun kena goes on lar~Just do watever u think is true and right!
For me, im going to chill with all of these mafan, u???
"Gotta get that,
Boom Boom Boom, Boom Boom Boom~"
hmmm,mmmm ...My PR......
Cheers
Are you irritated by your own life?
OR
Are you thinking of a "full-sleeping plan" package?
COME ON! GET A LIFE!!
However, is non of my business anyway! I probably think that things will be more positive when you think that everything is positive and possible! Not say that i'm a positivism (erm..sound like involve some theories), but its good to think positively~(Im not purposely point on u, peter)
This semester really "take my life"! i have 5 subjects but it like more worst than last semester which had 6 subjects + Ms S.! This time, we have lousy lecturers, again, but all of us like already used to it! Sure lar, we are like kena training last semester edi mar~
This time kena be very FUN! I will act like advertiser to promote Pizza Hut and Gintell lar, Multimedia class like im a design student in The One Academy, act like donkey to stare at those comm theories lar, and last but not least, a Nielson's staff to do research on my yucky report! Sound interesting huh? U should take PR and try!
“我们PR真的包山包海” (鸡蛋糕,2009)
means
"Our PR really cover mountain cover sea" (Chicken cake, 2009)
What a marvelous phrase in describing our course! Nonetheless, life pun kena goes on lar~Just do watever u think is true and right!
For me, im going to chill with all of these mafan, u???
"Gotta get that,
Boom Boom Boom, Boom Boom Boom~"
hmmm,mmmm ...My PR......
Cheers
Disappointment
It was totally a mess just now! I know it sound ridiculous, but i dun knw why people are taking it so serious...
"We never walk alone!" Nice phrase huh? But we really didn't apply it!
After this, i really can see "some people" 's true color! I really do....I love Lee Yee in a sudden! The way she explained just now was RIGHT! I donno why people are still can't let it go!
I heard others are not satisfy with me! Okay, im cool~ (not so)
Im really tire to explain every single things! For my friends, u know who am i!
And i found out the bad things to have CGPA 3.0 above, is u need to select ur own members, which will cause many hearsay~
Cheers anyway~
"We never walk alone!" Nice phrase huh? But we really didn't apply it!
After this, i really can see "some people" 's true color! I really do....I love Lee Yee in a sudden! The way she explained just now was RIGHT! I donno why people are still can't let it go!
I heard others are not satisfy with me! Okay, im cool~ (not so)
Im really tire to explain every single things! For my friends, u know who am i!
And i found out the bad things to have CGPA 3.0 above, is u need to select ur own members, which will cause many hearsay~
Cheers anyway~
FAITH
I AM SORRY FOR BEING LATE.
BECAUSE I WAS THINKING WHETHER I SHOULD QUIT BLOGGING. I STARTED TO LOSE THE MOTIVATION.
BUT YOU SEE… HERE I AM AGAIN.
I REALLY DON'T KNOW HOW I SUPPOSE TO START MY NEW SEM! IT WAS TOTALLY SHIT, AND I REALLY HATE THAT FEELING!
I LOVE MY FAMILY ANYWAY! I LOVE MY MUM! BUT, SHE JUST DON'T KNOW HOW I FEEL! THANK YOU FOR THE FAITH MA! I LOVE YOU!CHEERS!
Hakuna Matata
Hurray~Hurray~Hurrar x1000000000Finally we are free, YES, can u believe this? WE ARE FREE!
Get out you God damn exam, and welcome the beach! Yipee~
Oh, i just too excited!
Can u smell the beach?? Can u smell the food?? Can u smell my feet??
I know that we will be going to have a very gorgeous enjoyable babi happy holiday! As our exam is OVER.....
I wonder how we passed through this semester with those assignments and exams! Bravo T3.
Oh my, i still cant believe is true!! Someone slap my face plssss~
I would like to sleep without nightmare, I would like to sleep after play game but not study, and i would like to stare at PC for nothing whole day....I just want to do tons of things to balance up my exam phobia hormones!
Although result will release one day, sabar man! At least let us fully charge our mind first!
I'm anticipating now!
Cheers.
Top 10 Wonders in World~十大奇景之最
Yes people, your eyes are
Peter study! And guess what~ he is the A- student tho! Since you seeing this "miracle" picture, please go buy ToTo!
This is short blog anyhow! Muax!
and....Holiday is one step closer! Dont stress!
Cheers!
The Best to the Last
It's 2.40a.m. mid night~
and it's study week! Time flowed like water! Probably this will be my last blog, no lar, at least no blog until i finish my final!
Before that, i would like to say somethings to all my friends: this actually dedicate to you guys!
T3: Thank you!
AiFen, thanks for being my editor for most of my assignment and i really appreciate that!
Gary Sew, thanks for fetching me to uni everyday! Apologize if i really hurt u during IPC's assignment! U know i always sayang u! Chubby~
Peter Goh, thanks for sharing your happiness and sadness with me! Also, sorry for the toxic words that always come from my toxic mouth! I know its hurt sometimes and i try to change (erm...sound impossible)
BigHead, thanks for the conference. I really proud to be in your group! I always been blessed to have friends like u! Share with us if u feel down or sad, we are ur friend tho~
Neeli, thanks for the Agromas assignments. I really love your information and your butterfly! Okay, apologize for my toxic mouth again (Why i always apologize for the same thing ar?) Tomato, tasty huh?
Siew, thanks for the Agro also! the print ads are damn nice! POP leader, thanks for the comment and advice that day during Japanese class (Chicken le...)
LiLi, i know this semester got little bit 'dump' you away! But hey, i still love u! Be positive ya, and dont forget to look for us when u need help! Let's go yam cha till 3am again! but this time, is your turn to share something with us lor!
Bumi, dont worry, im not going to forget u as u always molest us! haha! Cheers bumi, i know somethings might not get smooth in the beginning but in the end, things will be okay! Just chills!
Sean, Robot and Leeman, thank you for the effort on Agromas! Sean, wish u get a new bf lar and dont so fan lar!
Mamie, yenmei, chad, leeyee, ct, and all (except karen and aaron), thanks for the guidance and support! Muax!
Apart from T3, thanks for Jason Loh for the trailer and Long Long for the care!
Anyone that i missed out! Sorry lar...end of this sem but will start the new very soon ma~
Cheers!
and +U in final!
and it's study week! Time flowed like water! Probably this will be my last blog, no lar, at least no blog until i finish my final!
Before that, i would like to say somethings to all my friends: this actually dedicate to you guys!
T3: Thank you!
AiFen, thanks for being my editor for most of my assignment and i really appreciate that!
Gary Sew, thanks for fetching me to uni everyday! Apologize if i really hurt u during IPC's assignment! U know i always sayang u! Chubby~
Peter Goh, thanks for sharing your happiness and sadness with me! Also, sorry for the toxic words that always come from my toxic mouth! I know its hurt sometimes and i try to change (erm...sound impossible)
BigHead, thanks for the conference. I really proud to be in your group! I always been blessed to have friends like u! Share with us if u feel down or sad, we are ur friend tho~
Neeli, thanks for the Agromas assignments. I really love your information and your butterfly! Okay, apologize for my toxic mouth again (Why i always apologize for the same thing ar?) Tomato, tasty huh?
Siew, thanks for the Agro also! the print ads are damn nice! POP leader, thanks for the comment and advice that day during Japanese class (Chicken le...)
LiLi, i know this semester got little bit 'dump' you away! But hey, i still love u! Be positive ya, and dont forget to look for us when u need help! Let's go yam cha till 3am again! but this time, is your turn to share something with us lor!
Bumi, dont worry, im not going to forget u as u always molest us! haha! Cheers bumi, i know somethings might not get smooth in the beginning but in the end, things will be okay! Just chills!
Sean, Robot and Leeman, thank you for the effort on Agromas! Sean, wish u get a new bf lar and dont so fan lar!
Mamie, yenmei, chad, leeyee, ct, and all (except karen and aaron), thanks for the guidance and support! Muax!
Apart from T3, thanks for Jason Loh for the trailer and Long Long for the care!
Anyone that i missed out! Sorry lar...end of this sem but will start the new very soon ma~
Cheers!
and +U in final!
If I Were a Girl
If I were a girl even just for a day, I would roll out of the bed in the morning and...take of my bra
Okay. This is not Beyoncé Knowles nor the sexual transgenders crisis. No worries. In fact, I really want to know how a girl actually felt when she told me that she have a hair cut and she missed her hair after cutting it.
Because, i had my hair cut~However.....according to my Mum "Your Hair Cut also like didn't cut" (Mummy,2009) Hey....my hair really short edi ler~Ape Lu!
So next time, i will have partially-shaved and avant-garde hair and then cut them like Aaron did. So my mum (as well as my friends) will realise the changes.
Let's compare~
Right is before hair cut and left is after. Look, it become shorter obviously. Well, maybe not~
Whatever lar...I'm still handsome as usual!
Cheers.
Oh ya...2day our Eddy PC done! Blessed as our result are excellent...(Can i say that?) Thank you all...muax
One more minutes, Please!
Recently, owing to the Final exam excitement, I find that 24 hours is not enough for me. I just need more time doing my own stuffs lar...
Like this,
Please, let me sleep~
Cheers.
A Secret
I used to claim that I’m tough. But… Damn!! My immune system sucks nowadays. Since I have stopped badminton for around one year, I do no sports seriously, excluding some push-ups and sit-ups. My poor badminton rackets. Blaming on the weathers, I easily get tired and fall sick. I wonder how I can get STRONGER. Perhaps, I should gain some weights.
Pressure overloaded. My assignments and the never-ending presentation and mid-term. And my Final (Especially AV,EMC and PRW)… I’m 100% worried.
Burning the midnight oil ain’t really my life style la.. But I did burn a lot needlessly as I was addicted to the cartoons. Damn...Is that right? I had finished a lot of cartoons; in fact, I got my swollen eyes in the next mornings. Let me name them!! Shinchan, Ninja Hamtaro, Conan, Inuyashya, beauty and the beast, Aladdin (Again) and such!
Oh well… I thought I was a serious man. I thought I didn’t have to worry what my future would be. And I thought I could make people happy.
But… I was wrong.
I’m fragile and sorry to myself and my parents and my brother and sister and my dear friends for being so childish always. Days and nights, I find a way to grow up faster and become a better man. In the end, I’m big outside but tiny inside. I’m not as good as I think I am. Getting out of control is already a typical case. Is everyone same to me?? I wonder.
Cheers.
Pressure overloaded. My assignments and the never-ending presentation and mid-term. And my Final (Especially AV,EMC and PRW)… I’m 100% worried.
Burning the midnight oil ain’t really my life style la.. But I did burn a lot needlessly as I was addicted to the cartoons. Damn...Is that right? I had finished a lot of cartoons; in fact, I got my swollen eyes in the next mornings. Let me name them!! Shinchan, Ninja Hamtaro, Conan, Inuyashya, beauty and the beast, Aladdin (Again) and such!
Oh well… I thought I was a serious man. I thought I didn’t have to worry what my future would be. And I thought I could make people happy.
But… I was wrong.
I’m fragile and sorry to myself and my parents and my brother and sister and my dear friends for being so childish always. Days and nights, I find a way to grow up faster and become a better man. In the end, I’m big outside but tiny inside. I’m not as good as I think I am. Getting out of control is already a typical case. Is everyone same to me?? I wonder.
Cheers.
