U=You; Over= Too Over
Life's like that. Or it's part of life.
Just when you thought that things would be better as we progress, you only find it to become worse.
When you thought that you controlling someone, in fact, they are the one who playing you on their palm.
And that's where it makes us all stressed up. My philosophy of life is to minimize stress and do whatever is within my capability without jeopardizing relationships, with anyone, or the only one.
I know it from the drastic change from the way people treat me. Signs of behavioral change could be detected by speech, the way of communication when you don't get the response you anticipate or even the response you hate, and the avoidance of certain questions that you expect the outcome.
Change is an irreversible process.
So, when you found out they are too OVER in changing; what you do is just AGREE~ AGREE~ and AGREE with them.
WHY?
Because they LOVE it!
C'mon, you won't get any rewards for your mean disagreement. Stay calm and deal, be cool. Trust me, they SENSE you. Eventually they will know you are boring with their superficial change. And in turn, you are telling them, YOU'VE CHANGED.
For the nutshell, when someone is changing, you had to change as well so that you can adapt to the environment. If they change good, you good; if they change bad, you good also la...^^ (be a good people)
Cheers
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